A Welcome Change

As many of you know, I’ve always been a little self-conscious about my body. Tonight while talking on the phone with NBF, he brought up the topic. “I think you have an an absolutely beautiful, perfect body.” That comment just really made my night because I knew that he meant it. This guy is crazy about me, and he never misses the opportunity to say so. I spent some time with him last night, and he took my head into his hands, looked me in the eyes, and said, “I don’t think you realize just how beautiful you really are. Every time I see you, you are even more beautiful than before.”

I’ve been so concerned for the last few years with trying to drop a few pounds. I’ve been so concerned about trying to look a certain way - a way that maybe isn’t even realistic. To have a guy who appreciates me exactly the way I am, and one who thinks I don’t need to change a thing, is truly amazing.

20 Responses

  1. Benjamin Says:

    so very, very glad to hear it

    good for you, Tish

  2. bricotrout Says:

    wow, i certainly have a thing or two to learn from THAT guy! does he give sit in lectures or write books? good find tishy… good find

  3. Gabby Says:

    We’re a rare breed!

    ;-)

  4. Top cat Says:

    so NBF is saying what we all have been telling you for months Tish.:)

  5. Osbasso Says:

    Ditto to TC’s comment.

  6. r-e-n spells ren but i'm raw Says:

    i’ve thought you were hot from jump street

  7. lecram sinun Says:

    Tish, glad you’ve found someone who truly appreciates you for who you are! Cheers!

  8. Tommy Gunn Says:

    I’ve been telling you for months you have a great body. Glad it’s finally getting through. Have a great day doll.
    TG

  9. MamaKBear Says:

    It’s a great feeling, ain’t it?

    MrKB’s made me feel like that for the last 12 years. :)

  10. Binsk Says:

    Yes it is. Sounds like a keeper.

    I’m very happy for you Tish.

    And you are beautiful.

  11. Robert van de Walle Says:

    YAY!

    (I’m glad you HEARD it when he said you are pefect. ‘Cause you absolutely are)

  12. Rachel Says:

    Yay!

    *hugs*

  13. Kalani Says:

    Unconditional love is the shiznit!

  14. Summer Says:

    Awww…definitely a keeper, Tish!

  15. David Says:

    Hmmm….Sounds like a keeper.

  16. nosouthernbelle Says:

    Sounds like a great guy so far!

  17. Gary Says:

    There are lots of guys who don’t get turned off by a few extra pounds, because it’s the whole package that makes a woman sexy.
    And sexy you are.

  18. clara* Says:

    YAY!!! so happy for you!! jer’s the same way. i show him pictures of me in high school, when i think i was in perfect form, and he says ‘you look anorexic there, much healthier now’. sigh. music to my ears.

    you deserve it kiddo.

  19. Memphis Steve Says:

    You’re very lucky.

    And good-looking, too, which helps.

  20. James Says:

    Sounds like a wonderful man. I am very, very happy for you!

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