Comments on: Florida Boy Got Cold Feet! http://chattiekat.com/2005/10/31/florida-boy-got-cold-feet-2/ Thu, 09 Feb 2012 00:33:57 +0000 hourly 1 http://wordpress.org/?v=3.0.1 By: Sasha http://chattiekat.com/2005/10/31/florida-boy-got-cold-feet-2/comment-page-1/#comment-763 Sasha Wed, 02 Nov 2005 15:33:52 +0000 http://74.54.128.18/~chattkat/?p=168#comment-763 girl, i think i can empathize... and while the boys may have a point, i agree with the girls more on this one!!! girl, i think i can empathize… and while the boys may have a point, i agree with the girls more on this one!!!

]]> By: stretch td http://chattiekat.com/2005/10/31/florida-boy-got-cold-feet-2/comment-page-1/#comment-762 stretch td Tue, 01 Nov 2005 22:45:35 +0000 http://74.54.128.18/~chattkat/?p=168#comment-762 Something sounds fishy. Every night for 7 weeks and he's not ready to meet? I would by dying for a face-to-face by then.<br/><br/>Maybe there is something (or someone) that he has not told you about. Something sounds fishy. Every night for 7 weeks and he’s not ready to meet? I would by dying for a face-to-face by then.

Maybe there is something (or someone) that he has not told you about.

]]> By: Femi-mommy http://chattiekat.com/2005/10/31/florida-boy-got-cold-feet-2/comment-page-1/#comment-761 Femi-mommy Tue, 01 Nov 2005 12:24:26 +0000 http://74.54.128.18/~chattkat/?p=168#comment-761 a. rude of him therefore he does not deserve your affections.<br/>b. what is he hiding?<br/>c. seven weeks AND NEVER MEETIN G is moving too fast?! what?! imagine you ran into some guy at a coffeeshop down the street and he insisted you only talk on the phone/online for the first 7 weeks of your relationship.<br/><br/>Your a catch babe - and you deserve much more. a. rude of him therefore he does not deserve your affections.
b. what is he hiding?
c. seven weeks AND NEVER MEETIN G is moving too fast?! what?! imagine you ran into some guy at a coffeeshop down the street and he insisted you only talk on the phone/online for the first 7 weeks of your relationship.

Your a catch babe – and you deserve much more.

]]> By: Kalani http://chattiekat.com/2005/10/31/florida-boy-got-cold-feet-2/comment-page-1/#comment-760 Kalani Tue, 01 Nov 2005 09:04:34 +0000 http://74.54.128.18/~chattkat/?p=168#comment-760 Tish, I don't know the whole history here but I just want to say a few things. Be honest with FB about the way this makes you feel. Ask him point blank if there is something he isn't telling you. But to be honest I might be able to talk about meeting but it would be really hard for me to go through with it. I would be SO insecure. And that's just with the friends I have met online I couldn't imagine if there were actual romantic feelings involved. <br/><br/>You are a stunningly beautiful woman. That, matched with your stunningly beautiful personality makes for a pretty intimadating situation. Honesty is always the best policy and that's all that I can offer up. Hope things get better. :) Tish, I don’t know the whole history here but I just want to say a few things. Be honest with FB about the way this makes you feel. Ask him point blank if there is something he isn’t telling you. But to be honest I might be able to talk about meeting but it would be really hard for me to go through with it. I would be SO insecure. And that’s just with the friends I have met online I couldn’t imagine if there were actual romantic feelings involved.

You are a stunningly beautiful woman. That, matched with your stunningly beautiful personality makes for a pretty intimadating situation. Honesty is always the best policy and that’s all that I can offer up. Hope things get better. :)

]]> By: Tish http://chattiekat.com/2005/10/31/florida-boy-got-cold-feet-2/comment-page-1/#comment-759 Tish Tue, 01 Nov 2005 05:41:24 +0000 http://74.54.128.18/~chattkat/?p=168#comment-759 Mike ~ Didn't you know that single and lonely women like myself have nothing better to do than sit around and blog at 3 AM? hehe. I like your idea about going on bad dates and then blogging about them. I can see a weekly feature coming on! Thanks for the advice, friend!<br/><br/>Osbasso ~ Thanks for the friendship and support! And I apologize for not answering your email yet. I've been drowning in my studies. I'll drop you a line soon!<br/><br/>Michael ~ Where would I be without friends like you? hehe. Thanks for the sweet compliments! We should definitely hang out next time you're in K-Town or I'm in Nashvegas! I haven't seen you in forever!<br/><br/>Nniceguy269 ~ Thanks for stopping by my blog, and thanks for the kind words! Maybe that "lucky guy" will decide to show up one of these days! ;)<br/><br/>Gabby ~ Thanks for the support, friend! I'm so glad that the long distance thing worked out for you and your wife. I'll just wait and see what happens for me. I'm sure that there's someone out there for me, even if it's not Florida Boy. :)<br/><br/>Anonymous ~ Thanks for stopping by, and I appreciate your kind words and advice! <br/><br/>Taco ~ Thank you! Let me know when you start driving! hehe.<br/><br/>And to Marc and Eric who have sent me emails about this, I appreciate your friendship and advice! It is so nice to have friends like you! Mike ~ Didn’t you know that single and lonely women like myself have nothing better to do than sit around and blog at 3 AM? hehe. I like your idea about going on bad dates and then blogging about them. I can see a weekly feature coming on! Thanks for the advice, friend!

Osbasso ~ Thanks for the friendship and support! And I apologize for not answering your email yet. I’ve been drowning in my studies. I’ll drop you a line soon!

Michael ~ Where would I be without friends like you? hehe. Thanks for the sweet compliments! We should definitely hang out next time you’re in K-Town or I’m in Nashvegas! I haven’t seen you in forever!

Nniceguy269 ~ Thanks for stopping by my blog, and thanks for the kind words! Maybe that “lucky guy” will decide to show up one of these days! ;)

Gabby ~ Thanks for the support, friend! I’m so glad that the long distance thing worked out for you and your wife. I’ll just wait and see what happens for me. I’m sure that there’s someone out there for me, even if it’s not Florida Boy. :)

Anonymous ~ Thanks for stopping by, and I appreciate your kind words and advice!

Taco ~ Thank you! Let me know when you start driving! hehe.

And to Marc and Eric who have sent me emails about this, I appreciate your friendship and advice! It is so nice to have friends like you!

]]> By: Taco JOhn http://chattiekat.com/2005/10/31/florida-boy-got-cold-feet-2/comment-page-1/#comment-758 Taco JOhn Tue, 01 Nov 2005 05:26:02 +0000 http://74.54.128.18/~chattkat/?p=168#comment-758 Tish, I don't know who Florida guy is, but I'd drive from Arizona to meet you. You are a stunning woman, and he MUST be crazy!!! Tish, I don’t know who Florida guy is, but I’d drive from Arizona to meet you. You are a stunning woman, and he MUST be crazy!!!

]]> By: Anonymous http://chattiekat.com/2005/10/31/florida-boy-got-cold-feet-2/comment-page-1/#comment-757 Anonymous Mon, 31 Oct 2005 22:15:41 +0000 http://74.54.128.18/~chattkat/?p=168#comment-757 I've stumbled acrossyour blog a couple of times and have never commented before now. I've done the long distance and online dating relationships thing. Take it from me, you're probably better off this way. You're far too beautiful to be alone for very long. Besides, the first thing that comes to mind is that he's either married or already in some sort of relationship. I wish you nothing but the absolute best. I’ve stumbled acrossyour blog a couple of times and have never commented before now. I’ve done the long distance and online dating relationships thing. Take it from me, you’re probably better off this way. You’re far too beautiful to be alone for very long. Besides, the first thing that comes to mind is that he’s either married or already in some sort of relationship. I wish you nothing but the absolute best.

]]> By: Gabby http://chattiekat.com/2005/10/31/florida-boy-got-cold-feet-2/comment-page-1/#comment-756 Gabby Mon, 31 Oct 2005 19:54:51 +0000 http://74.54.128.18/~chattkat/?p=168#comment-756 I'm the last person to talk expertly on relationships, but I have to agree with everyone commenting here.<br/><br/>Backing out of a meeting like that seems rather strange - I mean, I'd go through with it just out of sheer curiosity, even if there was no intention of having a relationship beyond the internet.<br/><br/>It's a sad fact of life that all of us, me included can easily put on a fabulous online persona (well, i think I do!) but in real life can be a real let down - I'm very shy and retiring mostly in real life, but I think I get myself across better in writing than I do in speaking.<br/><br/>As to long distance relationships, after my wife and I met we sent letters across 3000 miles (Canada to the UK and back again) for 6 years before finally getting married. It may be a long way away, but at least you guys don't HAVE to get on a plane! I’m the last person to talk expertly on relationships, but I have to agree with everyone commenting here.

Backing out of a meeting like that seems rather strange – I mean, I’d go through with it just out of sheer curiosity, even if there was no intention of having a relationship beyond the internet.

It’s a sad fact of life that all of us, me included can easily put on a fabulous online persona (well, i think I do!) but in real life can be a real let down – I’m very shy and retiring mostly in real life, but I think I get myself across better in writing than I do in speaking.

As to long distance relationships, after my wife and I met we sent letters across 3000 miles (Canada to the UK and back again) for 6 years before finally getting married. It may be a long way away, but at least you guys don’t HAVE to get on a plane!

]]> By: nniceguy269 http://chattiekat.com/2005/10/31/florida-boy-got-cold-feet-2/comment-page-1/#comment-755 nniceguy269 Mon, 31 Oct 2005 16:03:47 +0000 http://74.54.128.18/~chattkat/?p=168#comment-755 here's my two cents on the subject... no make that 3 cents.... forget him! Something is fishy smelling and I'm with the other guys...flags are flying all over the place. After 7 weeks? Either he's not being honest about something or he's a fool for not wanting to meet a woman that is as attractive as you. If he met someone face to face would he wait 7 weeks before he asked her out if they talked every day... nope! Save your heart, there is a lucky guy out there some place. here’s my two cents on the subject… no make that 3 cents…. forget him! Something is fishy smelling and I’m with the other guys…flags are flying all over the place. After 7 weeks? Either he’s not being honest about something or he’s a fool for not wanting to meet a woman that is as attractive as you. If he met someone face to face would he wait 7 weeks before he asked her out if they talked every day… nope! Save your heart, there is a lucky guy out there some place.

]]> By: Michael http://chattiekat.com/2005/10/31/florida-boy-got-cold-feet-2/comment-page-1/#comment-754 Michael Mon, 31 Oct 2005 15:29:18 +0000 http://74.54.128.18/~chattkat/?p=168#comment-754 Tish,<br/><br/>Let's face it...you are pretty darn cute and hot all around. And maybe guy realized that and got nervous that you might love him online but not in person....<br/><br/>Or he's been hurt and burned and is afraid to try again.<br/><br/>I don't know as I"m not him.<br/><br/>I'd say not give up on him just yet.<br/><br/>Or you could just call me and we can hang out...one of the two. LOL Tish,

Let’s face it…you are pretty darn cute and hot all around. And maybe guy realized that and got nervous that you might love him online but not in person….

Or he’s been hurt and burned and is afraid to try again.

I don’t know as I”m not him.

I’d say not give up on him just yet.

Or you could just call me and we can hang out…one of the two. LOL

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