Ever have a feeling that you just can’t explain? Somehow you know something but you have no idea how? Or maybe you don’t know anything at all. Maybe you just think you do. For several years now, I’ve been convinced that I’m going to meet my soulmate online! I don’t know why I feel this way, but I have been trusting this feeling to the point that I rarely give a guy a chance if I don’t meet him via the internet. My friends give me a hard time. They think I’m going to end up being the next victim of a cyber killer. I may be less than conventional, but one thing that I am not is careless. Yes, I have chatted with many guys. In my opinion, chatting is harmless. When it comes to actually meeting an online pal, that is a different story. I will not meet a guy unless I feel very comfortable with him. Though online dating has become quite popular over the last few years, it is still not as socially acceptable as say, meeting a guy in a bar! What the hell?! I have no desire to go to a bar in order to meet guys. And if that is the only way that I’ll meet someone, then I’m in for one lonely ride! Here is a brief description of the guy I’m looking for:
He is intelligent and ambitious. I’m not looking for wealth. As a matter of fact, money is a turn-off to me, and I say that honestly. I want a man I can relate to, with a lifestyle that I can relate to! I’m not rich. I don’t drive an expensive car. I don’t shop on Rodeo Drive. I have a decent paying job that I enjoy, and I have everything that I need to get by. I’d much rather go out for pizza than dine in a 4-star restaurant. I want a man who is affectionate and never hesitates to tell me how he feels about me. He must be dedicated, as I am one of the most loyal women he will ever meet. I do not cheat, and I do not want a cheater. Romance is important to me. I enjoy showing my boyfriend my appreciation for him. Showering him with affection as well as cards, notes, and other little tokens of my love gives me a warm fuzzy feeling. Receiving that same kind of attention makes me feel even more special. And please understand this - I do NOT want to be showered with expensive gifts! Something from the heart (such as a poem or card) is worth much more to me. Considering my love for movies, a guy with that same interest would be nice to find. Oh, and last but definitely not least - a nice smile is the most attractive thing about a man! My Mr. Right has a smile that can light up the room!
If anyone has seen this man that I have so desperately been seeking for so many years, please send him my way!
October 30th, 2007 at 7:22 pm
the intro to this entry reminds of something someone told me not to long ago, about how we DO know certain truths, but not necessarily HOW we know these things. we. just. do.
i’ll read on before i comment on this. you are funny:
“They think I’m going to end up being the next victim of a cyber killer. I may be less than conventional, but one thing that I am not is careless.”